Step 1
G-spot stimulation is all about trust. If she doesn’t trust you completely yet, or this is your first time to try and stimulate her G spot, or if she has personal issues with G spot stimulation, NOW is the time to clear the air and check how she feels about it. Bottom-line, if she’s not comfortable, finding and fingering her Gspot won’t bring any success.
Step 2
Ensure that you’re properly groomed. Make an effort to cut your nails and make sure you have clean hands.
Step 3
Engage in prolonged foreplay. The more sexual tension / sexual anticipation in her, the more responsive she will be with G spot stimulation. Performing oral sex on her is a good way to kick start G spot stimulation.
Step 4
Once she’s wet and ready, slowly but firmly insert your index finger inside her, palm up. (You can also insert BOTH your index and middle fingers, depending on her tightness). Once inside, move your finger(s) a bit to the left (11 o’clock position). Bend your finger(s) as if you’re making a “come hither” expression. Now, slowly try and locate an area that’s a bit swelling. Like the ****oris, it swells when aroused.) Feel for a spongy or slightly ridged area (like the top of your mouth).
Step 5
Once you’ve found the elusive G-spot, you can stimulate it in many ways. (1) Tap it as you would rapidly tap the end of a pencil on your teeth (or desk). (2) Flick it repeatedly like a light switch. (3) Treat it like a doorbell that’s falling on deaf ears; i.e., press the bell with a bit of pressure repeatedly. (4) “Lick it” by using your fingers and gently stroking it. (5) Treat like her **** and draw small circles around it. Try all these and see which one turns her on best.
Step 6
Prepare for ejaculation… hers. As you stimulate the G-spot, be aware that this can really make her squirt. She may try to stop this feeling as it feels the same way as needing to pee and she doesn’t want to be embarrassed. So if you start to feel that her womanhood is trying to clamp down on your finger(s), start goading her to let go. Reassure her that you want her to come and – hopefully – she will.
Tuesday, November 24, 2009
Monday, November 9, 2009
10 thing to do to please a man ;)
If you want to make sure that your man is fully satisfied in bed every time, there are certain things that you must do. You just can't lay down in bed spread your legs and expect him to jump for joy. Great lovemaking does not automatically happen, you must do these ten things you want your man to be fully satisfied in bed:
1. Open yourself both physically and mentally so that both of you can better achieve an orgasm. Some women think that it is just good enough to simply be naked in bed and great sex will happen. Not so. You have to be open physically and mentally by giving into the physical pleasure you feel, and making sure your mind is engaged in the pleasure as well.
2. When you are giving your man a blow job do not make it seem like you are doing him a favor. Give him a blow job the way you would want him to do the same to you. Your attention to detail and your enthusiasm will come through in the act. If he feels you genuinely want to pleasure him, he will respond to you with the biggest orgasm.
3. Find out what his fantasy is and let him indulged in it -- as long as it is something that you are comfortable with, and will not end up ruining your relationship.
4. Incorporated sex toys into your lovemaking. Find out what he enjoys and let him have it. Sometimes it may end up being something that you will derive a lot of pleasure from.
5. Put on your sexiest lingerie and do a strip tease for him. Make sure you have lit up some scented candles, and put on some soft music. As you dance for him, touch him in his sweet spots and be sure to tease him a little. Do not let him touch you even if he wants to, until you are completely nude.
6. Ask him if he would like to watch you masturbate and then give him a show that he must watch through to the end as if he were looking at you through a peep show window. The tension and excitement will most likely drive both of you into a frenzy that only a good orgasm will quench.
7. Surprise him by initiating sex. Most of the time men initiate sex even to the point that they feel that it has turned into one of their chores. It is a turn on when you initiate sex.
8. Turn him on by letting him know what you enjoy in bed. If you get the most pleasure when he penetrates you from the back, vocalize it during lovemaking. Men feel good about making love to you when you let them know that they are hitting your sweet spot.
9. Offer yourself to him blindfolded. Often this willingness to surrender and to trust him completely can heighten his sexual experience.
10. Do not be afraid to explore each other' s bodies before, during, and after sex. As you well know, men are visual beings and are turned on when you let them see all of you -- with the lights on.
1. Open yourself both physically and mentally so that both of you can better achieve an orgasm. Some women think that it is just good enough to simply be naked in bed and great sex will happen. Not so. You have to be open physically and mentally by giving into the physical pleasure you feel, and making sure your mind is engaged in the pleasure as well.
2. When you are giving your man a blow job do not make it seem like you are doing him a favor. Give him a blow job the way you would want him to do the same to you. Your attention to detail and your enthusiasm will come through in the act. If he feels you genuinely want to pleasure him, he will respond to you with the biggest orgasm.
3. Find out what his fantasy is and let him indulged in it -- as long as it is something that you are comfortable with, and will not end up ruining your relationship.
4. Incorporated sex toys into your lovemaking. Find out what he enjoys and let him have it. Sometimes it may end up being something that you will derive a lot of pleasure from.
5. Put on your sexiest lingerie and do a strip tease for him. Make sure you have lit up some scented candles, and put on some soft music. As you dance for him, touch him in his sweet spots and be sure to tease him a little. Do not let him touch you even if he wants to, until you are completely nude.
6. Ask him if he would like to watch you masturbate and then give him a show that he must watch through to the end as if he were looking at you through a peep show window. The tension and excitement will most likely drive both of you into a frenzy that only a good orgasm will quench.
7. Surprise him by initiating sex. Most of the time men initiate sex even to the point that they feel that it has turned into one of their chores. It is a turn on when you initiate sex.
8. Turn him on by letting him know what you enjoy in bed. If you get the most pleasure when he penetrates you from the back, vocalize it during lovemaking. Men feel good about making love to you when you let them know that they are hitting your sweet spot.
9. Offer yourself to him blindfolded. Often this willingness to surrender and to trust him completely can heighten his sexual experience.
10. Do not be afraid to explore each other' s bodies before, during, and after sex. As you well know, men are visual beings and are turned on when you let them see all of you -- with the lights on.
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